You've Been ServedJan 31, 2020
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Robert claims the biggest assault that night was an assault on comedy as an art form (22:16). Ty addresses his bias towards Will (26:07). Jorge and Ty give some special shout outs (27:18). Bonus clip (28:56).YouTube -https://youtu.be/oH-bSPSkf2oJul 01, 202230:15THE NEW GIRLFRIENDTy opens with the kind of parent he wants to be (0:00). Robert updates the audience on Chris' girlfriend (0:43). Jorge and the gang discuss Spider-Man: No Way Home (5:40). Ty brings up the forbidden topic: Bruno (10:58). Ty wraps up the episode (17:50). Bonus clip (20:03).YouTube - https://youtu.be/vFSShkPEzq8May 02, 202221:46EXIT STRATEGIESIn the 60th episode of You've Been Served Podcast Robert, Jorge, Ty and Chris discuss "exit strategies". Jorge starts by asking how their weeks have been (1:05). Robert defines today's topic: exit strategies (5:33) and then the group discusses how they plan to exit relationships and whether its okay. Ty shares on why it's only reasonable to expect that a relationship will end (6:20) and why it's okay to keep your options open (7:18). Chris brings up ghosting as an exit strategy and why he thinks it's a toxic thing to do (14:43) and Jorge explains why he believes people around you tend to see relationship problems before you do (16:07). Ty invents a new exit strategy to escape his baby mama (19:14) and Jorge talks about an unwritten rule in the bro community (25:08). Ty explains the difference (in his mind) between women and men in terms of exit strategies (26:54). Ty closes the episode out (29:56). Bonus Clip (32:25).YouTube - https://youtu.be/wJsN3u7X5LIApr 05, 202233:11TOXICITYIn the beginning of the 59th episode Jorge discusses when he realized he was an alcoholic (0:00) and when he realized Northridge was a real place (0:45). Then Ty gives the details on his upcoming baby shower (2:40) and Chris brings up the topic of the day--toxicity (3:39). Robert speaks on toxicity and his issues with the term and then the group responds (5:36). At the halfway point Chris throws a curve ball when he asks the guys about domestic violence (14:28), but the gang is briefly sidetracked when Ty talks about the beatings his mother used to give him (15:51). Robert shares a little about his past emotionally abusive relationship and Jorge explains his rule of thumb for similar situations (18:08). Ty asks the group if it's wrong for men express emotions and why (25:03). Finally, Ty wraps up the episode and reminds the audience to check in with themselves (27:35). Bonus clip (31:19).YouTube -https://youtu.be/j-VBrA3Wg6kNov 01, 202131:40TRUE COLORSThe episode starts off with the gang questioning what Ty does in the shower (0:03), and then Jorge introduces the topic of the day (1:39). Ty explains why he wanted to talk about friends showing their true colors (4:03) and Jorge clarifies how gender can affect friendships (8:48). Robert shares a story about his best friend, and connects it to Ty's issues with his friends (9:32). Jorge points out that friends can often see toxic relationships better (or before) you can (12:46). Robert asks, "at what point do you cut off a friend?" (14:42). Looking back, Ty revisits the time he was called a mansplainer (18:45). Finally, Ty explains what the future will be with his disrespectful former friends (20:04) and Robert notes Ty's growth over the past few years (21:35). Ty wraps up (26:03) and the episode ends with a short bonus clip (30:02). YouTube - youtu.be/KSJNnQ2kP8o Oct 02, 202130:42DATING?You've Been Served is back with Episode 57! Robert, Jorge, Chris, and Ty discuss their first episode back (1:29) and the behind-the-scenes of the short skit they put together (2:06). Jorge asks the guys how they feel about the dating landscape today versus previous generations (8:44) and Chris willingly offers his thoughts on receiving a potential rim job (12:53). Jorge points out the normalization of toxic traits within relationships (15:10) and in commenting on those toxic behaviors, Ty recounts the story and circ*mstances surrounding his child's conception(25:04). Finally, the gang gives some final thoughts on navigating dating today (32:47) and there is a bonus clip at the end/introduction to the new series "postscript." (40:10). Thanks for joining us on our second podcast back!YouTube -https://youtu.be/RSs8Ctk-1X4Sep 01, 202140:45FATHERHOODYou've Been Served is back! Robert, Jorge, Chris and Ty give updates on the podcast (0:13) and discuss how life has changed since the last time they recorded (2:00).Ty explains how he's feeling about some major life changes (9:17) and the gang trade stories about their own parents experiences (14:32). Jorge asks how fatherhood has changed as culture and technology evolve (32:52) and Chris, Jorge, and Robert impart some advice for Ty (42:27). Finally, Ty wraps the episode up (49:51) and there is a secret bonus clip at the end (52:25). Thanks for joining us on our first podcast back!YouTube - https://youtu.be/7q2S4skwt6UJul 31, 202152:55One Year SpecialIn this episode the group reflects on the trials, tribulations, bests, and worsts of the past year.YouTube - https://youtu.be/XcwvZHJteOgJun 20, 202001:00:16Black Lives Matter SpecialIn this special episode the gang welcomes back Jhakur (@tonieark on Instagram), and they talk about protests, riots, and more. Ty starts the discussion wout talking about John Boyega's tweet (0:08). The group moves on to talk about their reactions to the George Floyd video (1:51). Quickly, they move on to discuss the protests and rioting and the impact it has on local communities (specifically black and/or underprivileged communities) (3:16). Then, for those of you waiting on Chris' entrance, he comes in to add his opinion (9:53). Ty pivots to discuss to what extent we should blame the police force for these killings; is it all their fault? Or just a few bad actors? (20:19) Robert and Chris bring up the negative impact the violence, looting, and rioting has on the movement overall and how it can discourage people who might normally agree with the movement (27:31). They discuss what the movement would have to do wrong in order to lose their support (35:01). Finally, Chris suggests if the movement is to continue it needs a path forward and the gang discusses where they want to see changes in both society at large and smaller police issues (43:07).YouTube - https://youtu.be/XxLIY3nU4hwJun 05, 202056:03San Diego, The Sex Podcast, and Chris' Mole FetishIn this on-location (and sex-themed) podcast Robert, Chris, and Jorge discuss filming in San Diego (0:21). Then the gang briefly addresses Ty's rant at the end of Podcast 36 about the LGBTQ+ community (4:22). Out of curiosity, Chris asks Robert and Jorge what their age cutoffs are for relationships and sex (5:22). Then Jorge asks Chris and Robert how old they were when they found out about sex (18:18). Jorge then asks Robert and Chris if they would ever create a sex tape with their partner (26:13). Robert goes on to discuss the failures, successes, and internal workings of the podcast (34:10). Finally, Robert and Jorge discuss how they found out about Chris' mole fetish (37:02).YouTube - https://youtu.be/Y7YC6QUpbHgApr 03, 202045:20Democratic Nominees, Corona Virus, and Cultural NormsEpisode 39 sees the gangs first trip outside LA to visit Jorge in San Diego. First, Robert, Jorge, and Chris dive into the Democratic Nominees and debates (1:10). Then Jorge asks whether Chris and Robert would date a (tobacco) smokers (11:34) which leads to Chris asking Jorge what his preferred way of ingesting marijuana is (15:50). Then the gang touches on the subject on everyone's mind right now: Corona Virus (19:14). After issuing a warning and updates, Robert asks about the cultural norms of Hispanic/Latino's versus white/Caucasian people (24:49). Jorge discusses his kink for women who can trade insults with you (45:10). Finally, Chris covers why he doesn't side with Ty despite the fact that he often says outlandish stuff as well (49:33).YouTube - https://youtu.be/Fqcf01t2_UgMar 20, 202051:43Bullying, Military Praise, and Richard PicsIn the 38th episode of You've Been Served, we see Jorge begin by reminiscing on the passing of his close friend Vega (2:47). After that the gang approaches the subject of bullying and their own experiences with it (10:56). Jorge moves on to talk about his issues with those in the military who feel as if they are more deserving of praise in the wake of Kobe Bryant's death (26:01). Finally, Ty, Robert, and Jorge discuss Richard Pics... if you know what they mean (41:04).YouTube - https://youtu.be/UriNFuBpoDQMar 13, 202055:09Sexual Assault on Men, Roasting, and Being a Third ParentIn this episode we see the return of Chris, Ty, and Robert in a relatively serious episode. Episode 37 kicks off with Robert raping N.W.A. and Ty explaining leap years (0:10). Afterward, the guys explain their experiences with sexual assault and explain why they wish sexual assault on men was more reported (2:00). To lighten up the episode Ty, Chris, and Robert go in on each other for the first "roasting" section of the podcast (20:33). Finally, the group addresses Ty's concern about being forced to be a third parent to his siblings (38:58).YouTube - https://youtu.be/AS7BPRhc-yMMar 06, 202058:28Kobe Bryant, Texting in Movie Theaters, and Watching Your Siblings Grow UpIn this episode of the You've Been Served Podcast Ty, Robert, and Jorge discuss Kobe Bryant's recent passing and the impact it had on all of them (6:30). Later, Jorge and Robert question Ty on his movie theater habits, after receiving several texts from Ty while he was watching Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker (22:07). Finally, the gang discusses seeing younger members of your family grow up and how weird it can be to watch them begin to engage in more adult actions (33:33).YouTube - https://youtu.be/etWo94sqTc0Feb 28, 202052:31Jeffery Epstein, Impeachment, and Robert's Closing StoryIn the 35th episode we flashback to November to discuss Jeffery Epstein (5:26), the impeachment trial (22:10), and Jorge's nightmare of a closing with Robert (37:41). Finally, the gang discusses no-shave/no-nut November and how they are managing (49:35).YouTube - https://youtu.be/Dg7zSPMsLRUFeb 21, 202059:18Popeyes Chicken Sandwiches, Sexualization of Food, and Artists in 2020Episode 34 starts off with an incredibly annoying taste test of the Popeyes Chicken Sandwhich we've heard so much about (0:32). Chris and Robert move on to talk about the sexualization of food within American culture (12:22). Chris and Robert move on to talk about who they want new albums from in 2020 (28:56). Finally, Robert questions how common elderly "swinging" communities are (51:10).YouTube - https://youtu.be/Psdl9NIIEmEFeb 14, 202055:04Masking Sadness, What Is A Good Friend, and Ty's NewsThis episode starts with the gang giving a shout out to the recently passed, JUICE WRLD (4:11). Afterward, Ty, Robert, and Jorge get a little deep asking serious questions like "do you use humor to mask sadness?" (10:17) and "what makes a good/real friend?" (28:56). In the end they lighten it up by discussing the real reason Ty was in San Diego (40:40). Finally, Robert and Jorge button the episode with stories about other men asking them personal questions they'd rather not answer (53:34).YouTube - https://youtu.be/LpBO9n1m3lMFeb 07, 202059:53Lightsabers, Genetic Engineering, and Ellen/Bush ControversyIn a flashback to last fall, Jorge off this podcast by asking where they would want to shoot a podcast if they could go anywhere in the world (5:19). The gang quickly jumps off topic to when Robert asks what lightsaber the guys would want (7:00), and then move on to discuss the futility of trying to please everyone (10:43). Then the gang finally addresses a question they asked in a previous podcast, if you could genetically engineer your baby, would you? Should you? (15:52). Finally, the gang discusses the Ellen DeGeneres and George Bush baseball controversy (36:04). Ty and Robert say goodbye to Chris and Jorge and close the podcast.Jan 31, 202059:54Bucket Lists, Funny Break Ups, and Dayvon TaylorIn the 31st episode Chris and Robert hold down the fort until Ty arrives (8:18). With WWIII impending, Ty, Chris, and Robert ask eachother what's on each other's bucket lists, and what they'd like to get done before they die (0:56). Afterward, the gang discusses their funniest and weirdest break ups (20:59) most of which occured during High School. finally the episode ends on a somber note when Ty fills Robert and Chris in on the situation with his cousin, Dayvon Taylor (36:43) (linked information down below*).YouTube -https://youtu.be/JhqywwWH-lg*Dayvon Taylor:CBS - https://losangeles.cbslocal.com/2020/01/13/family-of-6-year-old-beaten-to-death-demands-answers-justice/KTLA - https://ktla.com/2020/01/11/6-year-old-south-l-a-boy-allegedly-beaten-to-death-by-coach-laid-to-rest/GoFundMe - https://www.gofundme.com/f/day-on-taylorJan 24, 202001:00:00Australian Fires, Kevin Hart, and the Rise of SkywalkerIn the 30th episode of You've Been Served Ty, Jorge, and Robert open off by briefly discussing the passing of Ty's cousin, Dayvon Taylor (1:15) (linked information below*). Then the gang moves on to discuss the Australian fires (3:53) (links and information below**) and Robert shares about his family down under. Shortly after, Ty asks Robert and Jorge about the new Kevin Hart documentary (13:16) and what their thoughts are on it. Jorge then dives into one of his favorite topics: Star Wars (29:13) . Together they discuss why the newest film was so controversial in the fanbase. Finally, they all give some insight to their lives since the holiday (49:47) and cap this podcast off.YouTube - https://youtu.be/tYbzLkWxyU4*Dayvon Taylor:CBS - https://losangeles.cbslocal.com/2020/01/13/family-of-6-year-old-beaten-to-death-demands-answers-justice/KTLA - https://ktla.com/2020/01/11/6-year-old-south-l-a-boy-allegedly-beaten-to-death-by-coach-laid-to-rest/GoFundMe - https://www.gofundme.com/f/day-on-taylor**Non-Profits:Australian Red Cross - https://fundraise.redcross.org.au/drrNew South Wales Rural Fire Service - https://www.rfs.nsw.gov.au/volunteer/support-your-local-brigadeWorld Wildlife Fund (Worldwide Fund for Nature) - https://www.wwf.org.au/get-involved/bushfire-emergency#gs.spqs81More Information:The New York Times - https://www.nytimes.com/2020/01/06/world/australia/help-australia-fires.htmlBBC - https://www.bbc.com/news/world-australia-50951043CNN - https://www.cnn.com/2020/01/01/australia/australia-fires-explainer-intl-hnk-scli/index.htmlJan 17, 202001:03:35Legal Special (California Consumer Privacy Act, Roe v. Wade, and World War III)You've Been Served is now in session! In this legal special of You've Been Served, Robert attempts to pry the brain of Chris about legal issues and laws facing us now. Robert initially asks about the new California Consumer Privacy Act which was enacted January 1st (1:13), then they move on to discuss potential changes to the Roe v. Wade supreme court ruling about abortion (13:46), the impending World War and it's legal consequences (38:04), and finally they discuss Congress' move to allow homeless to sleep in cars and public spaces (52:21). YouTube - youtu.be/tYbzLkWxyU4 Jan 10, 202057:01Friend Zone, Ball Deodorant, and Jorge's MistakeIn an episode that flashes-back to earlier this year, Ty and Robert say goodbye to Jorge before he leaves to Sacramento. Ty and Jorge start off the episode with a song (0:27) and then discuss the ins and out's of the "friend zone" and whether it is a good, bad, or neutral thing (3:32) . Afterward, Ty attempts to introduce Robert and Jorge to a new type of deodorant...ball deodorant (27:28) . Finally they discuss something Jorge did at Robert's Halloween party that has forever been scarred in Ty and Robert's minds (39:00) . Finally they end the podcast on an inspirational note, each one trying to give their own on the fly motivational speech (49:10) .YouTube -https://youtu.be/8GPai2uYX1wJan 03, 202001:00:55New Year's Special (New Year's Resolutions, Musician of the Year, and 2020 Movies)In the extra long New Year's special the whole gang reunites to reflect on this past year and how they want to change and grow moving forward. They move on to Time magazine's pick for musician of the year, Lizzo, and some of the controversy surrounding her. Finally, they discuss the new movies coming out in 2020 and argue about which universe is going to be better in the coming year (the Marvel or DC cinematic universe?).YouTube -https://youtu.be/M6ieKeUg5ToDec 27, 201901:25:01Holiday Special (Holiday Movies, Memories, and More)Happy Holidays! In this Christmas/Holiday themed episode all four of the original gang come back to catch up and discuss all-new (mostly) Christmas/Holiday themed topics. They start off with regular updates, then move on to their favorite Christmas movies, the new Star Wars movie, Trump's incoming impeachment, the difference between new sources for Republicans and Democrats, and their favorite Christmas memories.YouTube -https://youtu.be/7TfcOAyopwUDec 20, 201901:05:05Popeyes, Code-Switching, and Disney + (feat. Jhakur McLeod)Find Jhakur on Instagram at: @tonieark In perhaps the shortest episode of the podcast, Ty opens talking about his new car. Robert, Jhakur, and Ty then discuss the Popeyes chicken sandwich fad and compare their experiences with other chicken sandwiches. After that they discuss code-switching in the African-American/Black community and the impact it has had on Jhakur and Ty's lives. Finally they dicuss the new streaming service: Disney + (or as Ty likes to say "Disney + this d***). YouTube - youtu.be/HrPIHECDVkc Dec 06, 201942:54Tesla's Cybertruck, Cultural Thanksgivings, and R. KellyDISCLAIMER: We speak on some touchy subjects particularly pertaining to R. Kelly and we would like to specifically clarify that none of the members of You've Been Served have ever or will ever condone the alleged actions and decisions made by R. Kelly and his affiliates.Episode Twenty-Three is all over the place for Ty, Chris, Jorge, and Robert. They start out witha few small updates about Chris and Jorge and then quickly move on to a myriad of topics including (but not limited to) the new Tesla Cybertruck, Thanksgiving and the difference between cultures for caucasain-americans, hispanic-americans, and asian-americans, deepfakes, the new Scoob movie, the new Sponge-Bob movie, Kanye, R. Kelly, cancel-culture, and Robert's surprising new idea for a hair style.YouTube -https://youtu.be/qlhAhV0EBA8Nov 29, 201957:55Ty's Grandma, Santa Clarita Shooting, and T.I.'s Gynecologist (feat. Jhakur McLeod)In the twenty-second episode of You've Been Served, Ty and Robert bring on a new special guest: Jhakur. Jhakur, Robert and Ty mourn the loss of Ty's grandmother and speak on what it is like to lose a loved one. To lighten the mood, Jhakur speaks on his idea of creating a male OnlyFans account and asks if Ty and Robert would support him/shout him out. They dive back into dark territory discussing the recent Santa Clarita shooting, gun control and mental illness. Finally they end the episode on a odd note with T.I.'s claim that he brings his adult daughter to a gynecologist to check if her hymen is intact. YouTube - youtu.be/uAWhRS_WSUE Nov 22, 201901:08:11Viewer Complaints, High School, and the Fyre FestivalIn this episode the gang (Ty, Jorge, and Robert) are asking for trouble as they dive into the biggest viewer complaint thus far: stay on one topic. After openly discussing the possibility of doing just one topic per podcast they decide to do exactly the opposite and move on to stories from their High School years. Aiming to be controversial and stir up the Beyhive the gang tackles the dispairity between Jay-Z and Beyoncé's net worth and whether or not it is an example of sexism in the music industry. Finally, Jorge asks Robert and Ty what they think about the Fyre Festival and shares his own experience with it. This leads to them discussing how important it is to vet your sources and do your own research (especially in this day and age).YouTube - https://youtu.be/1OCUr2sXEM0Nov 15, 201901:00:32Impeachment, Gay Strip Clubs, and Taste of SoulThings pick up speed again in the nineteeth episode of You've Been Served. The entire gang reunties to talk about updates from Chris' San Francisco life, Donald Trump's impeachment hearings, Jorge's surprise move to Sacramento, learning cursive, and the Taste of Soul Festival in Los Angeles. Also Chris has a beard.YouTube -Nov 01, 201952:23Wingmen, "Good" Guys, and the Devil's Three Way (feat. Diana Arceo)In the seventeenth episode we flashback to the beginning of the podcast, bringing back Ty, Robert, Chris, Jorge and special guest Diana Arceo. The episode is less formulated and takes a lot of detours including (but not limited to) dating people with kids, how Diana got pregnant, favorite shows from their childhood, and a story about Chris trying to be Ty's wingman gone horribly wrong. The three main topics are wingmen, what defines a "good guy" (or "good girl") as a partner, and whether or not they'd participate in a devil's threeway.YouTube -https://youtu.be/jpk_DWAQk6UOct 18, 201901:22:38Mansplaining, Being Parents, and Boondocks RevivalIn the sixteenth episonde Ty, Jorge, and Robert start with a hot topic: Mansplaining. Ty has a lot to say about the concept of mansplaining and it's legitimacy. Robert and Jorge distance themselves from his perspective causing Ty to create his own podcast, "You've Been Separated". Then the gang discusses whether or not they want kids, how many, and why. Then they move on to the newly announced Boondocks revival, but quickly get distracted eventually leading to a in depth discussion of censorship and if/when it is appropriate to use the F- or N-word.YouTube - https://youtu.be/egJF_RN5PPUOct 11, 201901:01:38Joker Controversy, Cheating, and Jorge's SurpriseIn the fifteenth episode of You've Been Served, Jorge, Ty, and Robert really start to find their groove, moving through subjects quickly, but retaining the same amount of fun and energy. They start off the podcast talking about MPAA Ratings and the new film, Joker. They discuss some of the recent controvery surrounding it and how best to handle films for mentally unstable people. Then they move on to discuss a new bro code: "If a bro is cheating, one must not tell his significant other". After the gang explains their thought Jorge shares something with the group. Jorge, Ty and Robert also discuss the news that Spider-Man is back in the MCU and whether or not they should ever work at NPR given their experience in broadcasting.YouTube -https://youtu.be/kTbi2U1vfVwOct 04, 201958:04Childhood Crushes, National Parks, and the Rudest AnimalsIn the fourteenth podcast Jorge, Ty, and Robert start off the podcast with jokes and funny stories from their childhood (which eventually leads to crushes). Jorge asks Robert about his recent visit to Yosemite National Park and they all discuss their experiences camping when they were younger. Finally, as part of the scenario wheel segment the gang ponders "if animals could talk, which animal would be the rudest?"YouTube -https://youtu.be/kTbi2U1vfVwAmazon Fires are still a major problem:Non-Profits:Rainforest Action Network - https://www.ran.org/Rainforest Trust - https://www.rainforesttrust.org/World Wildlife Fund (Worldwide Fund for Nature) - https://www.worldwildlife.org/Amazon Watch - https://amazonwatch.org/Amazon Conservation Team - https://www.amazonteam.org/More Information:c|net.com - https://www.cnet.com/how-to/the-amazon-rainforest-is-on-fire-what-we-know-so-far-and-how-you-can-help/CBS - https://www.cbsnews.com/news/help-the-amazon-what-you-can-do-to-help-as-amazon-rainforest-fire-continues-to-burn-through-brazil/Business Insider - https://www.businessinsider.com/how-to-help-amazon-rainforest-what-charities-to-donate-to-2019Contact Your Elected Official:https://www.usa.gov/elected-officialsSep 27, 201901:03:18If We Were Hood, A$AP ROCKY, and Bar TalkIn Chris' last recorded podcast before he leaves to San Francisco, they ask what would happen if Robert, Ty and Chris were completely hood. Ty jumps into an accent and this leads to the group discussing what it means to be "hood". Chris speaks on the legal situation A$AP ROCKY was in back in Sweden, and they all contribute their two cents. Chris and Robert discuss Ty's flirting from the night before. Finally, they reminisce about Chris and say their "goodbyes".YouTube - https://youtu.be/Hnp55U5Xtk0Sep 20, 201901:01:19
